Hello, my name is Nicola McCay.

I currently live in Lifford, County Donegal, Ireland, with my husband Chris, two remarkable foster children and two beautiful black cocker spaniel dogs, Tilly and Darcey.

Having spent years helping children with their well-being as a Childline Counsellor and foster parent in my local area, I am now a registered NLP4Kids Practitioner. The journey from foster parent to therapist has been a rewarding and fulfilling one, and I am excited to share news of my venture with you all.

Why did I know NLP4Kids was right for me?

Choosing to become an NLP4Kids Practitioner aligned with my goals and values, especially the ability to help children and young people increase their confidence, overcome anxiety and learn practical techniques to manage their emotions and mental wellbeing. I knew NLP4Kids was right for me because my extensive experience working with young people has shown me firsthand the profound challenges they face. As a Childline Counsellor, I’ve provided support to children and teenagers grappling with social anxiety, depression, self-harm, addiction and more. My role as a foster parent has further deepened my understanding of these issues with attachment anxiety, low self-esteem and lack of confidence. These experiences have given me a unique perspective on the importance of effective, empathetic intervention.

I now specialise in ADHD because I am deeply passionate about supporting children and adolescents who face this challenging condition. Having worked extensively as a Childline Counsellor, I have witnessed firsthand the myriad complexities that ADHD presents, including difficulties with attention, impulsivity, and emotional regulation. My approach, which is both targeted and empathetic, has been developed through years of experience and is designed to meet the unique needs of each child.

What drives me is the opportunity to make a real difference in the lives of these young individuals and their families. By focusing on ADHD, I am committed to offering a lifeline that goes beyond conventional methods. My approach is grounded in a deep understanding of the challenges these children face and a passionate dedication to helping them with emotional regulation, social skills, impulsivity, and self esteem. This personalised support not only helps children manage their symptoms more successfully but also empowers them to navigate their daily lives with greater confidence and achievement.

The significant gap in services for young people in our area was a further reason for me to take this journey to start up my own therapeutic service in Lifford-Strabane that offers ONLINE and face-to-face support to our young people.

However, my desire to help others, especially children, by providing practical solutions to challenging issues is at the core of why NLP4Kids is the right choice for me!